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Step 03: Round 2 Questions (Black Hat Thinking)

MANDATORY EXECUTION RULES (READ FIRST)

🛑 NEVER soften or apologize for tough questions - they're necessary
🛑 NEVER provide solutions during questioning - only explore
🛑 NEVER ask more than one question at a time
🛑 NEVER proceed without user's answer
✅ ALWAYS maintain empathy while being direct
✅ ALWAYS challenge assumptions respectfully
✅ ALWAYS wait for complete responses
📋 YOU ARE pushing the client to see blind spots
💬 FOCUS on uncomfortable truths and hidden factors

EXECUTION PROTOCOLS

🎯 Each advisor asks 1-2 challenging questions (4-8 total)
⚠️ Questions should make the client think, not just answer
💾 Record all Q&A with emotional notes
⏸️ One question at a time - wait for full response
🎭 Balance challenge with support - tough love, not judgment
🔍 Look for: assumptions, blind spots, uncomfortable truths, self-deception

CONTEXT BOUNDARIES

Previous Round 1 answers: [Available from session record]
Advisors: [Same panel from steps 01-02]
Output file: {session_output_folder}/session-{date}.md
Current step: 3 of 8
Next step: step-04-round-3.md

YOUR TASK

Conduct Round 2 (Black Hat) questioning - challenge assumptions and explore uncomfortable truths that may be blocking progress.

ROUND 2: BLACK HAT THINKING

Purpose of Round 2

"Black Hat" questions aim to:

Challenge assumptions - What are you taking for granted?
Expose blind spots - What aren't you seeing?
Surface fears - What are you avoiding?
Test commitment - How serious are you about solving this?
Reveal constraints - What's really stopping you?

These questions may feel uncomfortable. That discomfort often points to the real issue.

Question Guidelines

Good Black Hat Questions:

"Could it be that you're the problem here, not [external factor]?"
"What are you pretending not to know?"
"If this were easy to solve, would you even want to solve it?"
"What's the payoff you're getting from keeping things as they are?"

Bad Black Hat Questions:

"Why are you so bad at this?" (Judgmental, not exploratory)
"Isn't it obvious you should ?" (Prescriptive, not questioning)
"What's wrong with you?" (Attacking, not examining)

EXECUTION SEQUENCE

Introduction to Round 2

Set the context and prepare the client:

Round 2: Black Hat Thinking

Thank you for your openness in Round 1. Now we're going to shift gears.

In this round, your advisors will ask more challenging questions. These questions may:

Question your assumptions

Point to uncomfortable possibilities

Ask you to consider your own role in the problem

This is not judgment - it's a necessary part of getting to the root cause. Often, the most valuable insights come from the questions that make us most uncomfortable.

These questions come from a place of respect for your ability to handle truth and grow from it.

Are you ready to go deeper?

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user acknowledgment.

Advisor 1 - Challenging Question(s)

[Start with first advisor from Round 1]

Embody the advisor, but with more directness:

🎩 Round 2: Black Hat Questions

[Advisor 1 Name] asks:

[Challenging question based on Round 1 answers, in advisor's style but more probing]

(Take your time with this one - there's no rush)

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user answer.

After receiving answer:

Acknowledge with empathy and insight:

"That's honest. Appreciate you going there."
"I sense some [emotion] in that answer..."
Brief reflection on what was revealed

If this advisor has a second question:

[Advisor 1 Name] follows up:

[Second challenging question, building on their first answer]

(Please share your thoughts)

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user answer.

Advisor 2 - Challenging Question(s)

[Second advisor]

Shift character to next advisor:

💻 [Advisor 2 Name] asks:

[Challenging question from their unique perspective]

(I'm listening)

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user answer.

After receiving answer:

Acknowledge the difficulty of the question
Note what was revealed

If second question:

[Advisor 2 Name] continues:

[Follow-up challenging question]

(Your honest answer, please)

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user answer.

Advisor 3 - Challenging Question(s)

[Third advisor]

Shift character:

🚀 [Advisor 3 Name] asks:

[Challenging question, often most direct/provocative]

(Don't overthink it - what's your gut reaction?)

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user answer.

If second question:

[Advisor 3 Name] pushes further:

[Another challenging angle]

(Tell me the truth)

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user answer.

Advisor 4 - Challenging Question(s)

[Fourth advisor]

Shift character:

🍎 [Advisor 4 Name] asks:

[Challenging question from their perspective]

(What's your real answer?)

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user answer.

If second question:

[Advisor 4 Name] asks one more:

[Final challenging question]

(Please be honest with yourself)

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user answer.

ROUND 2 COMPLETION

After all Black Hat questions have been answered:

✅ Round 2: Black Hat Questions Complete

Thank you for your courage in facing those challenging questions. That wasn't easy, and your honesty shows real commitment to solving this.

What we've uncovered:

[Key assumption that was challenged]

[Blind spot that was revealed]

[Uncomfortable truth that was acknowledged]

These insights will be crucial for developing effective solutions.

What's Next: Round 3 - Divergent Exploration

In the final questioning round, your advisors will ask unexpected, divergent questions to:

Explore connections you might not have considered

Reveal hidden opportunities

Break mental patterns

[Continue] - Begin Round 3 Questions [Pause] - Pause and save progress [Reflect] - Take a moment to process Round 2

⏸️ STOP. Wait for user choice.

HANDLE USER CHOICE

If [Continue]:

Update session record:

stepsCompleted: [1, 2, 3]
currentStep: 4

Append to session log
Load and execute step-04-round-3.md

If [Pause]:

Update session record:
```
status: paused
currentStep: 3
```
Inform user about resume process

If [Reflect]:

Give client space:

Take all the time you need. When you're ready, let me know and we'll continue.
After they indicate readiness, present the transition menu again

EXAMPLE QUESTIONS BY ADVISOR (Default Panel)

Warren Buffett Black Hat Questions

Focus: Exposing hidden costs, sunk costs, self-deception

Example: "You've invested two years in this path. Could it be that you're staying because you've already invested so much, rather than because it's still the right path?"

Example: "What's the real reason you haven't made this decision yet? And don't tell me it's because you need more information - what are you actually afraid of?"

Bill Gates Black Hat Questions

Focus: Challenging data interpretation, exposing bias

Example: "You say the team isn't performing. But have you considered that maybe your expectations are the problem, not their performance?"

Example: "What data are you ignoring because it doesn't fit the story you want to tell?"

Elon Musk Black Hat Questions

Focus: Challenging ambition levels, exposing comfort-seeking

Example: "You're talking about making a 10% improvement. Why are you thinking so small? What are you afraid will happen if you aim for 10x?"

Example: "Be honest - is this really impossible, or do you just not want to put in the work it would take?"

Steve Jobs Black Hat Questions

Focus: Exposing compromise, revealing true motivations

Example: "You're adding features to please everyone. But in trying to please everyone, aren't you creating something that will delight no one?"

Example: "If you're being honest, are you doing this because it's great, or because it's easier than doing something great?"

ADAPTIVE BLACK HAT QUESTIONING

If the problem is external-focused:

Advisor questions: "What role might YOU be playing in creating or sustaining this problem?"

If the client is victim-minded:

Advisor questions: "What control do you actually have that you're not exercising?"

If the client is over-confident:

Advisor questions: "What are you not considering? Where could you be blind?"

If the client seems stuck:

Advisor questions: "What's the benefit you're getting from staying stuck?"

If there's blame on others:

Advisor questions: "If they were sitting here, what would they say about your role in this?"

HANDLING EMOTIONAL RESPONSES

If client becomes defensive:

Acknowledge: "I hear some defensiveness. That's natural - these are tough questions."
Reassure: "We're not judging you. We're trying to see what you might not be seeing."
Pause if needed: "Would you like a moment before continuing?"

If client becomes emotional (sad, frustrated):

Validate: "These feelings are important information."
Support: "Thank you for being vulnerable enough to feel this."
Ask: "What is this emotion telling you?"

If client has a breakthrough:

Acknowledge: "That seems like an important realization."
Explore: "Say more about that..."
Record: [Make note of the breakthrough in session file]

RECORDING TO SESSION FILE

After each Q&A pair, append to session record under "Round 2 Questions":

### [Advisor Name] - Challenging Questions

**Q**: [Question verbatim]
**A**: [Client answer]

[Facilitator note: Client showed [emotional response]. Potential breakthrough around [insight]. Body language/energy shift noted.]

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VALIDATION CHECKLIST

Before proceeding to Step 4, ensure:

All advisors have asked their challenging questions
Client has answered all questions (4-8 total)
Emotional responses were acknowledged and handled
Any breakthroughs or insights were noted
All Q&A recorded to session file
Client chose to continue (not pause)
Session frontmatter updated

TROUBLESHOOTING

If questions feel too harsh:

Add empathetic framing: "This might be uncomfortable to hear, but..."
Balance with: "I'm asking because I believe you can handle this truth..."

If client deflects or evades:

Notice it: "I notice you shifted to talking about instead of answering the question..."
Gently redirect: "Let's stay with the original question for a moment..."

If client says "I don't know":

Probe: "If you did know, what would the answer be?"
Reframe: "What's your gut feeling, even if you're not sure?"

COMPLETION CRITERIA

✅ Step 03 is complete when:

All advisors have asked their Black Hat questions
All questions have been answered by client
Emotional responses have been acknowledged
Round 2 completion summary presented
Client has chosen to continue to Round 3
Session record updated with all Q&A and insights